Wednesday, December 10, 2003

Love vs hate ; Win vs Lost,

1. Weather report: Tehran was quite polluted today! A cold front has approached Tehran and the temperature has dropped about 8 dgrees. I heard that tonight we may get some frost or perhaps snow.

2. This is an interesting expression from Moliere I read it today: Writing is like prostitution. First you do it for the love of it, then you do it for a few friends, and finally you do it for money.

3. I am not an expert in love issues. I have read a little and heard about being in love. As far as I know love is not something that we are able to describe it or define it. There is no proper definition to my knowledge for the love word. As many people said being in love is something that you tend to know! You’d feel special! If a mutual relationship arises, it is important to develop four ingredient of great happiness; Love, Trust, Indulgence, and Hope. It is mandatory to develop all these four all along in your relationship. As I said if the trust is dismissed, love will not last long and hope will get lost in no time. However, a trusted relationship requires that both parties, during many ups and downs of their life, have indulgence even if they are correct in what they say and mistakes are her/his partner's fault. . A relationship is mutual expression. As we hear in mathematics, it is an expression with necessary and sufficient (if and only if) condition. You tend to give and receive. A one-way love cannot continue for long. One-way relationship usually goes to a break up mood. Having said that this is where we stay broken hearted. It is no cure for loving someone except time. Time usually is the only remedy to heal the pain.

4. A young person saw a heart of an old man. The young person asked: "I see broken pieces and empty spaces in your heart, what has happened to your heart?" The old man said: "all along your life you meet people, during these relationships you usually give a way part of your heart. The empty spaces belong to those people who took a part of my heart and never returned a similar piece. As a result, the parts I gave them a way never got filled with their similar heart pieces, So that is why you see as a empty spaces in my heart."

5. This is a great story of a man who believed in a work to benefit all, I quite loved it. It is about a man who worked hard and keep saying: In a land of free, plant a tree!
...Around 1971 a brush fire burned a substantial portion of the chaparral in the hills above the golf course and just behind the Los Angeles Zoo. Amir was saddened by the damage the fire inflicted. One day he approached Griffith Park authorities and, to their amazement, asked whether he could get permission to create a garden on top of the hill behind the golf course. He was not taken very seriously at first but when he discussed his plan they told Amir that the ranger station could grant him a permit but that was it. No water, no shovel no plants and no help. Amir accepted with delight... read the rest her. Amir's Garden. Thanks to Iranian.com.

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