Saturday, July 30, 2005

Friendship in Childhood vs Friendship in adulthood; who is the best friend!
Have you ever wondered how easy it was to find a friend when we were young? Some may say, yes, some may say no! but the truth is that it was hell easier to find friends when we were in an early age (I mean from 2 to 14 years old)! Have we ever wondered why?

I think the reason comes from the fact that we get complicated! In early age we are simple, down to earth, enjoy simple things, just get fascinated by hid and go seek game or by the world around us!!
However, later in life as we put it when we become adult, we get involved with ourselves and world around ourselces! No more simplicity, now things are not as straight as it they look.
Mr. Sepehr Haddad is a US based Musician from the groupShahin & Sepehr (couldn't find their website). They were playing new age music.
Mr. Haddad nicely explains the above claim and differences between the best friend, friend and acquaintances as we grow up to the higher dimension as I put it!
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It seems there is an inverse relationship between aging and the number of best friends one has. As a child, every kid that plays with you and doesn't make you cry or get you in trouble is considered a "best friend"; however, as you get older with every year that passes, it seems that instead of gaining more friends, one tends to perhaps gain more acquaintances and less true or "best friends". ...

read the rest here.

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